ARE YOU
GIFTED AND EFFECTIVE,
BUT STUCK?
The imposter, inner critic and doubt are leading you towards a life you don’t want.
Defining yourself by shoulds, have-tos, “right” ways, and external expectations or projections will always leave you feeling like a shell of yourself. Titles and achievements don’t capture your full value—or create the legacy you’re made for.
You aren’t stuck because you lack talent, are doing something wrong or are not enough. It’s a misaligned identity. In brand-speak, blurred positioning.
The solution is to Dare to Design the Real You.
THE GIFT OF TIME
AND LIFE IS FAR TOO PRECIOUS TO WASTE.
If you know you are made for more, and in search of meaning, Dare to Design the Real You introduces the Seeing Me Method—a design-led system that shows you how to align your identity, so that the next version of yourself encompasses all of who you are.
Used by paradigm-shifting founders and leaders, physicians, corporate professionals, athletes, and creatives to name a few, this method shows you how to design an identity that is deeply felt, impossible to ignore, and powerful in shaping a truer and brighter future—for yourself and others.
Through identity design, the field of limitless possibilities becomes visible.
It is the work that makes all other work go.
“USHI’S BOOK AND METHOD ARE A FRESH, LIBERATING AND EXCITING APPROACH TO BECOMING UNSTUCK, OPENING UP TO THE POSSIBILITIES OF YOU, AND STRIPPING AWAY THE UNNECESSARY TO REVEAL THE WORK WE ARE UNIQUELY MADE FOR.”
JOSH HOLDEN
Former Active Duty Military, Pro-Athlete, Real-Estate Investor
INSIDE YOU WILL
DISCOVER HOW TO…
SEE
See yourself clearly—and keep doing so through the inevitable ebbs and flows of life.
COMMAND
Be recognized and chosen for your value—with the command to speak about it and advocate for it.
DESIGN
Shape an identity and presence that brings every part of you together beautifully.
MAGNETIZE
Experience right place, right time, right people magnetism.
FOCUS
Pursue what truly matters with confidence and clarity.
IMPRINT
Make your signature mark and share your gifts more powerfully in the world.
THIS BOOK IS
FOR YOU IF YOU ARE…
At a threshold, a pivotal inflection point—career change, retirement, empty nest, graduation.
Highly accomplished, yet upholding your life and reputation means leaving parts of yourself out.
Known for what you do, but not fully seen for who you are—feeling overlooked, undervalued, or typecast.
Tired of the performance and grind.
Wanting to rediscover yourself.
RAVES + REVIEWS
⋆⋆⋆⋆⋆
BREAK OUT
OF THE BOX
Ushi and this book challenged me to break out of the box, see what I couldn’t see, reinvent myself and turn my dream into my reality. I now have control of my time, choose the clients I work with, and get to feel the satisfaction and joy of, “Oh wow—I said I’d do that, and I did.”
JESS RIEHL
Founder Riehl Consulting, Architect of Embracing Difficult Conversations
UNLOCK
DEEPER CLARITY
As a physician and entrepreneur, I’ve always been driven to lead with purpose—but this experience helped me show up more fully as myself in a way that unlocked deeper clarity, greater opportunities, expanded impact and business growth that feels both authentic and sustainable.
DR. TRACY VERRICO
Board Certified OBGYN, Hormone Expert, Self-Made Real Estate Millionaire
MEET THE
REAL YOU
It was FUN, it was CREATIVE, and it cracked open a vision of myself I can take into every corner of my life: my business, my personal space, even my love life. This is a whole picture of who I am. It’s a unique approach that’s both healing and electrifying. Ushi changed my life.
DR. SUSIE CARDER
Profit Coach
MAKE WHAT’S NEXT,
UNDENIABLY YOURS.
Whether you’re an executive stepping into a new role, a mom reinventing yourself, a founder shaping what’s next, an artist reclaiming your voice, someone navigating unexpected change—or simply an individual who feels effective but stuck—this book isn’t just a guide.
It’s a design project—for the most important work you’ll ever create: yourself.
The book, Dare to Design the Real You, gives you a close up view of The Seeing Me Method.
At times, it may read like a story. At others, a workbook, guiding you through the same tools my clients and I use to find clarity about what’s next—to shape an authentic now that leads to the meaningful work and joyful future we sense but can’t see.
Some of you will read this and make a pivot, reconnecting with your essence, value and unique contribution. Some of you will deepen your relationship with yourself. And some of you will choose to formalize what you discover into a brand.
Either way, my intention is that through this book and method, you will reimagine what’s next and make it yours.
IF YOU
CAN SEE IT,
YOU CAN BE IT
